{"id":13388,"date":"2023-01-08T21:27:55","date_gmt":"2023-01-08T14:27:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thichblog.net\/?p=13388"},"modified":"2023-01-08T21:27:55","modified_gmt":"2023-01-08T14:27:55","slug":"lam-sao-de-nhung-loi-khuyen-khong-bien-ban-thanh-ke-ta-day-thich-ra-ve-mark-manson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/?p=13388","title":{"rendered":"L\u00c0M SAO \u0110\u1ec2 NH\u1eeeNG L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN KH\u00d4NG BI\u1ebeN B\u1ea0N TH\u00c0NH K\u1eba TA \u0110\u00c2Y TH\u00cdCH RA V\u1eba – Mark Manson"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i internet, b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai v\u1edbi con ch\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia <\/a>trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a internet l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 chia s\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 ra s\u00e1u nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ea7n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y, v\u00ec t\u00f4i m\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1eadu ch\u00e1u trai gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t tr\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng, hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch l\u00fd lu\u1eadn Starcraft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5y tr\u00ean di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n c\u1ee7a m\u1ea5y g\u00e3 l\u1eadp d\u1ecb, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho c\u1eadu em trai. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00c3Y CH\u1eaeC R\u1eb0NG NG\u01af\u1edcI TA TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 MU\u1ed0N C\u00d3 L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean n\u00e0o t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean th\u1eeba th\u1ea3i. K\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ng\u00f3 l\u01a1 nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb t\u1ecdc m\u1ea1ch th\u00edch ra v\u1ebb. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t kh\u00f3 \u01b0a \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed3i: Khi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u00d4, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn c\u0169ng ngon \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f4 tr\u01b0\u1eddng cao h\u1ecdc chi cho t\u1ed1n ti\u1ec1n. M\u00f3n n\u1ee3 c\u1eadu ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fat m\u00e0u m\u00e8 trong \u0111\u01a1n xin vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u. Em h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0o cao h\u1ecdc, m\u1ea5y n\u0103m tr\u1eddi ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o v\u00e0 gi\u1edd th\u00ec \u0111ang m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng \u01b0a v\u00ec l\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1eadu h\u0129nh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ee3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u00fap l\u00e0 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng m\u1eb7t l\u1edd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\ud83c\udf1e\" H\u00c3Y CH\u1eaeC R\u1eb0NG B\u1ea0N TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 BI\u1ebeT M\u00ccNH \u0110ANG N\u00d3I C\u00c1I G\u00cc. Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn th\u1ee9 hai khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u00e0 khuy\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t uy t\u00edn. Nh\u01b0 ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cK\u1ebb ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y bao gi\u1edd, nh\u01b0ng theo t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y th\u00ec\u2026\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\ud83c\udf1e\" NH\u00ccN NH\u1eacN S\u1ef0 VI\u1ec6C TR\u00caN L\u1eacP TR\u01af\u1edcNG C\u1ee6A \u0110\u1ed0I PH\u01af\u01a0NG, CH\u1ee8 KH\u00d4NG PH\u1ea2I C\u1ee6A B\u1ea0N. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m. Khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu h\u00ean th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u00f4i, c\u00f2n xui th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed3i: Khi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e3i v\u1eb7t v\u1edbi em g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cRa l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0 d\u00f9 cho c\u00f3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa, gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4i. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n anh trai t\u00f4i m\u01b0\u1ee3n xe c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n v\u00e0 m\u00e2y m\u00e2y.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\ud83c\udf1e\" PH\u00c2N T\u00c2M H\u1eccC KH\u00d4NG PH\u1ea2I L\u00c0 M\u1ed8T L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN, M\u00c0 L\u00c0 RA V\u1eba. \u0110\u00e2y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean c\u00e1c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai c\u1ea3. C\u00e1ch nhanh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 c\u00f4 l\u1eadp b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ai, t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd \u0111ang c\u00f3, t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd m\u1eafc nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m h\u1ecd \u0111ang m\u1eafc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean s\u1ed1 ba, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 si\u00eau ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd xem b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ta \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t giu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi c\u00e1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111ang ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed3i: Khi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 \u1edf m\u1edbi kh\u00f3 qu\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cN\u00e0y, h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 gia c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed1 \u0111en m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng hay r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea9y \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ra xa kh\u1ecfi t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1ea5y, l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i \u0111i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\ud83c\udf1e\" PH\u00ca B\u00ccNH H\u00c0NH \u0110\u1ed8NG C\u1ee6A H\u1ecc, CH\u1ee8 KH\u00d4NG PH\u1ea2I T\u00cdNH C\u00c1CH. Hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0: gh\u00e9t t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ngu ng\u1ed1c v\u1edbi \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1ea5t trong s\u00e1ng. Nh\u1eefng ai l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u1ed7i chua ch\u00e1t khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u00e2y ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1ed3i: Khi \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u00d4i tr\u1eddi, anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ed t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u00e0? \u0110\u00e3 v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1eefa. Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00ea t\u1edfm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\ud83c\udf1e\" NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C KH\u00d4NG N\u1ee2 B\u1ea0N G\u00cc H\u1ebeT. Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n (c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 tr\u00ean c\u00e1c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n) t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 th\u1eed l\u00e0m theo. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n g\u00ec h\u1ebft. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0. V\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 n\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0111i v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 c\u0169ng theo \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang. T\u00f9y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecbch: Th\u1ee3 S\u0103n Ti\u1ec1n Th\u01b0\u1edfng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i internet, b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai v\u1edbi con ch\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a internet l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 chia s\u1ebb, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13388","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13388\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}