{"id":13648,"date":"2023-02-07T11:53:31","date_gmt":"2023-02-07T04:53:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thichblog.net\/?p=13648"},"modified":"2023-02-07T11:53:31","modified_gmt":"2023-02-07T04:53:31","slug":"tren-doi-chang-co-gi-la-hoan-hao-dung-lam-kho-chinh-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/?p=13648","title":{"rendered":"TR\u00caN \u0110\u1edcI CH\u1eb2NG C\u00d3 G\u00cc L\u00c0 HO\u00c0N H\u1ea2O, \u0110\u1eeaNG L\u00c0M KH\u1ed4 CH\u00cdNH M\u00ccNH"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Theo nh\u01b0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd Wabi-Sabi th\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o hay t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc b\u00ecnh v\u1ee1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ri\u00eang, m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.<br>N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2016, c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quay cu\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng Hygge c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi B\u1eafc \u00c2u th\u00ec t\u1edbi n\u0103m 2017, m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quay v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt c\u00f9ng l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n. Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m Wabi-Sabi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eeba d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft Zen c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, Wabi-Sabi l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ra sao?<br>\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ngh\u0129a Wabi-Sabi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p b\u1edfi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ecbch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ra m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Leonard Koren, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Wabi-Sabi cho r\u1eb1ng Wabi-Sabi l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a 3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1: kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n 100%, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<br>Wabi-Sabi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o th\u1ebf k\u1ec9 15, khi \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 si\u00eau th\u1ecb, nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1i tr\u00e0 hay nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc b\u00e1t c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00fac, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng tay, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m. Wabi-Sabi h\u01b0\u1edbng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, nh\u00ecn ra m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u1eddi m\u01b0a bu\u1ed3n t\u1ea7m t\u00e3, Wabi-Sabi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean trong n\u00f3.<br>D\u00f9 cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o, ta v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 v\u00e0 d\u00f9 cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o ra sao, b\u00ean trong n\u00f3 v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5 minh h\u1ecda th\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n \u1edf kh\u00f3e m\u1eaft, tr\u00f4ng th\u00ec x\u1ea5u th\u1eadm t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n kia.<br>Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ed9n b\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, ai c\u0169ng \u0111i t\u00ecm th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, th\u1ee9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o m\u1ed7i khi ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, theo tri\u1ebft l\u00fd Wabi-Sabi, th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00ec \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ebb h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111au l\u00f2ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh ra sao.<br>N\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng Wabi-Sabi, nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<br>T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n Wabi-Sabi, Leonard Koren n\u00f3i: &#8220;H\u00e3y qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebft n\u1ee9t, v\u1ebft n\u1ee9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a Wabi-Sabi kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn hay s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, Wabi-Sabi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1eadp l\u00e0m quen d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111i&#8221;.<br>Wabi-Sabi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/strong><br>B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng Wabi-Sabi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hi\u1ec3u tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y t\u00ecm ra khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft, khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111en \u0111\u1ee7i, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn ra m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, Wabi-Sabi s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1ea1n. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>T\u1ed1i gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, gi\u1ea3m stress v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n<\/strong><br>G\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng vui? K\u00e9m may m\u1eafn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng? H\u00e3y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng Wabi-Sabi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p sau nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng, n\u00e2ng niu nh\u1eefng v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p sinh ra t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00e2n l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Wabi-Sabi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft n\u1ee9t tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfc b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u1eb3ng ra \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3<\/strong><br>Nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n b\u00ean tr\u00ean ch\u1ee9? \u0110\u1eebng lo n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 l\u00e0m khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngu\u1ed3n: Tri Th\u1ee9c Tr\u1ebb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Theo nh\u01b0 tri\u1ebft l\u00fd Wabi-Sabi th\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o hay t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc b\u00ecnh v\u1ee1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ri\u00eang, m\u1ed9t n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2016, c\u1ea3 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10004,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13648","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13648","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13648"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13648\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13648"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13648"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13648"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}