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M\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe h\u01a1i d\u00f9 c\u00f3 3 chi\u1ebfc k\u00ednh chi\u1ebfu h\u1eadu v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y tai n\u1ea1n. T\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. L\u00fd tr\u00ed gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y t\u1ea1i n\u1ea1n cho ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh vi, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n (t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, h\u00e0nh vi, t\u01b0 duy, \u2026) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia ra b\u1ed1n g\u00f3c v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00ean l\u00e0 Johari Window:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. G\u00f3c m\u1edf:<\/strong> Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. G\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t:<\/strong> Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n che gi\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng cho ai kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. G\u00f3c m\u00f9: <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. G\u00f3c \u1ea9n: <\/strong>Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00f3c ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n. Mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng g\u00f3c m\u1edf v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m nh\u1ecf \u0111i g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t, g\u00f3c m\u00f9 v\u00e0 g\u00f3c \u1ea9n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129, thi\u00ean v\u1ecb, khao kh\u00e1t,…. k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea5u k\u00edn kh\u00f4ng cho ai bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n,… N\u1ebfu g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t l\u1edbn s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Tuy th\u1ebf n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nguy h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p b\u1eb1ng g\u00f3c m\u00f9 v\u00ec \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec trong g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00f3c m\u00f9 bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y trong khi \u1ea5y th\u00ec ai c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y.Theo t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u00ec t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 hai ph\u1ea7n: \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Hai ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea3ng b\u0103ng tr\u00f4i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i D\u01b0\u01a1ng, ph\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n n\u1ed5i nh\u1ecf, ph\u1ea7n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n ch\u00ecm. Nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m hay nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen hay \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi ki\u1ec3u t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u01af DUY KINH NGHI\u1ec6M. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy \u0111em l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 sinh ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 trong t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 sau:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. M\u00f9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c:<\/strong> Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qu\u00e1 cao v\u00e0o ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam Hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng Dunning-Kruger). Khi ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00e0ng cao th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. V\u00ec qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua, trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh suy ngh\u0129 \u201cm\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft h\u1ebft hay \u201cm\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u201cch\u1ebft\u201d khi mang t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u00f3 trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111em kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra. Kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau,…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. M\u00f9 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng:<\/strong> Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u201cnghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n nghe, th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5y, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u\u2019\u2019. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf. Do \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho d\u00f9 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. M\u00f9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac:<\/strong> C\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0m m\u1edd \u0111i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng theo s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1ea5y, nh\u1eafm ch\u1ee9ng minh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 khi m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1ea5y s\u1ebfp nhu\u1ed9m t\u00f3c b\u1ea1ch kim, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc thu\u1ed9c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n v\u1edb v\u1ea9n, kh\u00f4ng ra g\u00ec. V\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n t\u1eeb \u00f4ng s\u1ebfp n\u00e0y. V\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng t\u01b0 duy quan \u0111i\u1ec3m. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy c\u01a1 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 t\u01b0 duy?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. T\u1eadp ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u00e1i \u201cT\u00f4i\u201d. N\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u201cT\u00f4i\u201d, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. N\u00ean nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 t\u01b0 duy l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ai c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta. V\u1eady n\u00ean khi ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng tin, g\u00f3p \u00fd t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy \u0111a chi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e2n t\u00edch quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00ean x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u01b0 n\u00e0o v\u1edbi g\u00f3p \u00fd \u0111\u00f3. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay, EQ quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n IQ r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. T\u1eadp b\u1ecf d\u1ea7n quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fang \u2013 sai, ph\u1ea3i \u2013 tr\u00e1i, t\u1ed1t \u2013 x\u1ea5u, th\u00e0nh \u2013 b\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m \u201cTh\u01b0\u01a1ng cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111em sang M\u1ef9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111i t\u00f9 khi l\u00e0m th\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebb ra. Quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang sai, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i. Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t ch\u1eadt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4ng, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gay g\u1eaft bi\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e1u theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u201cch\u1ebft\u201d n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf T\u01af DUY KINH NGHI\u1ec6M. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00e2ng t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean \u1edf level cao h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 T\u01af DUY S\u00c1NG T\u1ea0O v\u00e0 T\u01af DUY \u0110\u1ed8T PH\u00c1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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