C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 lu\u00f4n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 \u00edt khi quan t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n mang trong m\u00ecnh n\u1ed7i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.
Vi\u1ec7c lo s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh do b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u1ecfi giang, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft k\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy \u0111o\u00e1n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean lo l\u1eafng.
Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “Tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb: Th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn s\u1ed1, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1ea9n s\u1ed1” \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0: c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng trau d\u1ed3i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, h\u1ecdc th\u00eam nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong \u1ee9ng x\u1eed giao ti\u1ebfp, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.
Khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00e2ng cao ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin t\u0103ng l\u00ean, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 lo ng\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 hay ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udccc “Tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb: Th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn s\u1ed1, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u1ea9n s\u1ed1” – Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng ch\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 lu\u00f4n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 \u00edt khi quan t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n mang trong m\u00ecnh n\u1ed7i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15677","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15677"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15677\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15677"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15677"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15677"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}