Th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb coi (d\u00f9 k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o hay l\u1ed3 l\u1ed9) l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u00e2u xa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eeba c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, v\u1eeba b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda tr\u00ean di\u1ec7n r\u1ed9ng, khi m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n d\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i n\u0103m n\u00e0y qua n\u0103m kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb ch\u00ea b\u00f4i, n\u00e0i \u00e9p chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4n s\u1ef1, k\u00e9o theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, ta nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn Ok n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f9ng ai kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u2018\u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n vui v\u1ebb\u2019 c\u0169ng thanh th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn \u1edf b\u00ean nhau v\u00ec ch\u00ednh tr\u00e1i tim h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady, v\u00ec h\u1ecd y\u00eau nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t s\u1ee3 l\u00ean v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n \u2018v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea5y \u00e1\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u00fd do t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ta c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng quan ni\u1ec7m y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm duy nh\u1ea5t ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u2013 hay t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n \u2013 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t 250 n\u0103m. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng k\u1ebft \u0111\u00f4i, song h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch sinh t\u1ed3n v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2018th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a hai k\u1ebb y\u00eau nhau\u2019 do \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 thu\u1ea7n l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n theo l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t hi\u1ebfm hoi, v\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ta c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Song t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean th\u00e0nh chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111i d\u00e2y tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta r\u01a1i \u2013 r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi romantic nh\u1ea5t \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec, ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 L\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n thi\u1ebft tha \u1ea5y m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nguy c\u01a1 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo, v\u1edbi tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mong ch\u1edd qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00f9 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch y\u00eau v\u00e0 chung s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng chung, \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu m\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng chung \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c (v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh) kh\u1ecfi h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd v\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1p logic nh\u1ea5t cho m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd \u2013 b\u1edfi ta d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf l\u00e2u d\u00e0i b\u00ean ai m\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 quen thu\u1ed9c, khinh b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u01a1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi ta y\u00eau, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn mang t\u00ednh t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 say m\u00ea, ng\u1ee3i khen, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc \u2013 r\u1ed3i r\u1eddi \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi ta l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. Chung \u0111\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ee7 d\u00e0i, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb cho r\u1eb1ng \u2018kh\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u1ede m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd mi\u1ec5n cho b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb nh\u1eafc ho\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 c\u1ee5c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u0129a g\u01b0\u01a1ng, ghi l\u1ea1i t\u1eebng c\u01b0 x\u1eed ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n, n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ebfu may m\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i bao dung v\u00e0 y\u00eau l\u1ea5y ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i sex d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. B\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf hy v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec h\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ed9c th\u00e2n hay c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n ri\u00eang: b\u00ean th\u00ec c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u00ean th\u00ec ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c \u2018c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u2019 d\u00f9 \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng quan h\u1ec7 \u0111ang ra sao, ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 ch\u00fat t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung hay b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Theo: The Book of Life<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb coi (d\u00f9 k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o hay l\u1ed3 l\u1ed9) l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u00e2u xa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15867","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15867","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=15867"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15867\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=15867"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=15867"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=15867"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}