{"id":3556,"date":"2018-05-21T11:07:38","date_gmt":"2018-05-21T11:07:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thichblog.net\/?p=3556"},"modified":"2018-05-21T11:07:38","modified_gmt":"2018-05-21T11:07:38","slug":"50-cau-noi-cua-paulo-coelho-co-the-thay-doi-cuoc-doi-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/?p=3556","title":{"rendered":"50 C\u00c2U N\u00d3I c\u1ee7a Paulo Coelho c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 THAY \u0110\u1ed4I cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cM\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng ra sao, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201d \u2013 Paulo Coelho( t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb Vi\u1ec7t Nam n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3n \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 \u201cNh\u00e0 Gi\u1ea3 Kim\u201d, \u201cM\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ed9t Ph\u00fat\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cB\u00ean b\u1edd s\u00f4ng Piedra t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i kh\u00f3c\u201d.)<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3.<\/li>\n
  2. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n
  3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u2013 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/li>\n
  4. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 n\u1eb1m b\u00ean trong ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta; ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng s\u1ebb chia c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/li>\n
  5. Khi ta y\u00eau, ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Khi ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt xung quanh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    V\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn v\u00e0 phi\u00eau l\u01b0u<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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    1. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eef kh\u00e1ch trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, l\u00e0 b\u1ee5i sao cu\u1ed9n tr\u00f2n v\u00e0 nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa trong nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng xo\u00e1y c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. Ch\u00fang ta d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p nhau, g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u. V\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng ngh\u1ec9 nh\u1ecf nhoi trong s\u1ef1 v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng.<\/li>\n
    2. B\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00e3 b\u1ea3y l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady t\u00e1m l\u1ea7n.<\/li>\n
    3. Khi ch\u00fang ta \u00edt mong \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1ea5t, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1o ra th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra c\u1ea3, hay n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 xem ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/li>\n
    4. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb phi\u00eau l\u01b0u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kho b\u00e1u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y.<\/li>\n
    5. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 trung t\u00e2m trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. V\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebfn gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb.<\/li>\n
      2. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 thi: n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n
      3. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f2n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. V\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim n\u00e0o t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au trong khi \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf v\u00e0 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng.<\/li>\n
      4. V\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/li>\n
      5. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef cho m\u1eaft m\u1edf, t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau trong khi nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft c\u1ea3.<\/li>\n
      6. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. \u01af\u1edbc m\u01a1 cung c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u1ea5t cho linh h\u1ed3n, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3.<\/li>\n
      7. V\u00e0, khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 s\u1ebd h\u1ee3p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        \u0110\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m n\u00f3 ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.<\/li>\n
        2. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u1eabn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c, m\u1ed9t l\u1ec5 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng.<\/li>\n
        3. Kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra, ngay c\u1ea3 trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat ti\u1ebfp theo, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c tin.<\/li>\n
        4. B\u00ed m\u1eadt ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. V\u00e0, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn sau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do. Ch\u1ec9 khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang, ta m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/li>\n
          2. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung; c\u00e1c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo.<\/li>\n
          3. H\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 qu\u00ean, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Tha th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi quan. L\u00e3ng qu\u00ean s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc.<\/li>\n
          4. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            V\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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            1. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd m\u00e3i m\u00e3i thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3.<\/li>\n
            2. Kh\u00f4ng ai m\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u1ef1 do ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1edf h\u1eefu n\u00f3.<\/li>\n
            3. Khi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eddi \u0111i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1eafp t\u1edbi.<\/li>\n
            4. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i khi thua. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i khi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c.<\/li>\n
            5. Khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u1ed5n th\u1ea5t n\u00e0o, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qua c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a; t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn m\u1edf ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00e0 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u1edbi.<\/li>\n
            6. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o m\u1edbi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

                \n
              1. Bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o k\u1ebft th\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. K\u1ebft th\u00fac nh\u1eefng v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n, \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda, ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng, d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng; \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qua.<\/li>\n
              2. \u0110\u00f3ng v\u00e0i c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hay ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, m\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                V\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

                  \n
                1. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng ra sao, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                2. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hy sinh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  L\u1eafng nghe tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

                    \n
                  1. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y kho b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                  2. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec n\u00f3 n\u00f3i.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

                      \n
                    1. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m. S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 m\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho ch\u00fang ta.<\/li>\n
                    2. L\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i.<\/li>\n
                    3. L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tuy c\u00f3 nghi ng\u1edd nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                    4. T\u00e0i n\u0103ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      V\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

                        \n
                      1. B\u1ea1n tin m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/li>\n
                      2. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 hai s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ho\u1eb7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/li>\n
                      3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n chinh ph\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chinh ph\u1ee5c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                        V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

                          \n
                        1. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang.<\/li>\n
                        2. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n nghe.<\/li>\n
                        3. N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft ra.<\/li>\n
                        4. \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a linh h\u1ed3n.<\/li>\n
                        5. \u0110\u1eebng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u00f3, v\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n.<\/li>\n
                        6. M\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0nh b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec1n.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                          (s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m)<\/p>\n

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