{"id":5482,"date":"2019-06-28T10:16:04","date_gmt":"2019-06-28T10:16:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thichblog.net\/?p=5482"},"modified":"2019-06-28T10:16:04","modified_gmt":"2019-06-28T10:16:04","slug":"nguoi-khon-ngoan-hieu-rang-con-ngua-tot-se-bi-nguoi-khac-cuoi-nguoi-tot-qua-se-bi-nguoi-khac-phu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/?p=5482","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng: “Con ng\u1ef1a t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01b0\u1ee1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ee5”"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, “c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5”, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con tim s\u1eaft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng d\u1ec5 chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n g\u00ec v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eebng d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh qu\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n d\u1ea1y “Con ng\u1ef1a t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01b0\u1ee1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ee5”, l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 b\u1ec7nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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L\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn g\u00ec, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb b\u00eau x\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd ghi nh\u1edb \u01a1n b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 gi\u00fap m\u00e3i th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap n\u1eefa th\u00ec t\u1eeb \u00e2n nh\u00e2n h\u00e1 ch\u1eb3ng h\u00f3a th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch sao.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eebng d\u1ec5 t\u00ednh qu\u00e1, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, cho d\u00f9 quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eebng \u00f4m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m v\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n vi ph\u1ea1m nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n d\u00e1m n\u00f3i ch\u1eef “kh\u00f4ng”. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 cho b\u1ea1n, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb v\u00f4 l\u00fd \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u, hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u1eb3ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ri\u00eang;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ri\u00eang;<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ri\u00eang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 ch\u1ee9c ph\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn thay ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“L\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec s\u1ebd sai nhi\u1ec1u”, qu\u00e1 hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n “m\u1ed9t vai g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c” t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n chia r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng “b\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec”. Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n quen l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u00edt h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f3c th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1eefa m\u1eb9 \u0103n”, c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 g\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00fang d\u00f9 sai th\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00fac m\u1eafc h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ee7i th\u00e2n th\u00ec h\u00e3y m\u1edf l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, c\u1ee9 \u00f4m suy ngh\u0129 trong \u0111\u1ea7u sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, m\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i g\u00f2 \u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec “g\u1ecdt ch\u00e2n cho v\u1eeba gi\u1ea7y”, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng d\u00e0i l\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 qu\u00e1 g\u00f2 \u00e9p, ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng r\u1ed9ng d\u00e0i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean qu\u00ean \u0111i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t “ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh” trong \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, so v\u1edbi l\u00e0m v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c chi b\u1eb1ng h\u00e3y l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng, th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 g\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y c\u00f3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c suy \u0111o\u00e1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng, h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean, t\u00edch l\u0169y n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i “ch\u1ea5t” c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn, h\u00e0 c\u1edb g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t \u1ea5y v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, “c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5”, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n s\u1eafc ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5482","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5482","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5482"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5482\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5482"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5482"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5482"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}