{"id":5499,"date":"2019-07-14T06:13:53","date_gmt":"2019-07-14T06:13:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thichblog.net\/?p=5499"},"modified":"2019-07-14T06:13:53","modified_gmt":"2019-07-14T06:13:53","slug":"du-dang-doc-than-hay-da-co-gia-dinh-nhat-dinh-khong-duoc-bo-qua-bai-viet-nay-neu-khong-se-an-han","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/?p=5499","title":{"rendered":"D\u00f9 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n hay \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u00e2n h\u1eadn"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do tu t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00ec th\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.
\nM\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd, \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 theo quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt, nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1.
\nPh\u1eadt gi\u1ea3ng r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00ean duy\u00ean ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3, c\u00f3 khi ph\u1ea3i tu c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0n n\u0103m, ng\u00e0n ki\u1ebfp. Tr\u1ea3i qua kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao kh\u1ed5 \u1ea3i, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhau. Duy\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1edb g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1, n\u1ee3 l\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u. Trong c\u00f5i v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 kh\u00f3i nh\u01b0 s\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ecfng manh m\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 th\u00ec t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng, ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi v\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng an l\u1ea1c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 duy\u00ean n\u1ee3 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady nh\u01b0ng, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7. V\u00ec sao c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p chung s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, tr\u0103m n\u0103m b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ea7u. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i d\u1edf dang, \u0111\u1ee9t g\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026 T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u0169ng v\u00ec duy\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea1n, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ea3 xong n\u1ee3 n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i.
Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh, thay \u0111\u1ed5i duy\u00ean s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng?
H\u00e3y c\u0169ng xem l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.
Gi\u1eef cho t\u00e2m t\u1ecbnh
Gi\u1eef t\u00e2m v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u1edfi ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y kia, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ebb tham lam mu\u1ed1n \u201c\u0103n v\u1ee5ng\u201d h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u00e1i tim con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec mong manh l\u1eafm, c\u00f3 l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1m d\u1ed7. M\u1ed7i l\u00fac th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt v\u1eefng t\u00e2m, n\u00ean ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bao dung
\nL\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m. Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y, mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0, khi y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f3 v\u1eady m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.
\nNh\u00ecn ra khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 bao dung. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 l\u00e0 dung h\u00f2a. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.
\nD\u00e0nh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 nhau
\nDuy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ec1n l\u00e2u. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec hai b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u1ea5u, th\u00f3i quen ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n trong m\u1eaft nhau. M\u1ed9t khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa hai b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n duy tr\u00ec t\u1ed1t th\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao dung, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u0169ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n
\nNgo\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 trong ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y hai, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u1ea5t th\u1eadt. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 l\u00e0m cho ta th\u1ea5y x\u00f3t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f3c c\u01b0\u1eddi theo nhau, b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng nhau.
\nC\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho c\u1ea3 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c v\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ta vin d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i khi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. V\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh trong ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3, c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng!
\nHi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft
\nH\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 bao dung, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f9y duy\u00ean, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 so \u0111o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t, h\u01a1n thua. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 xem ai gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, ai thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, gi\u1eef ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau ki\u1ebfp n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do tu t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00ec th\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd, \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 theo quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt, nh\u00e2n duy\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5499\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}