Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ai \nkh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ef1 \nnhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \nng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh\n \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c\u2026 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ta c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i \nlu\u00f4n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u1eady th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u00e0 ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \n\u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3? Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh \nc\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \nhi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng. Lolly Daskal n\u00f3i: \n\u201cCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \nb\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh\u201d. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn \nch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng \ntr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh cao. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \nch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \nta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o ra l\u1ee3i \u00edch t\u1eeb \nnh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \nng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \nkh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu ta th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong 1 l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c \nn\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00ec \ntr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 lu\u1eadt b\u00f9 tr\u1eeb. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3! N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i \nth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, th\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ta ch\u1ebft \u0111i c\u0169ng \nch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nB\u1edfi v\u1eady, h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 su\u00f4n s\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ec3 \n\u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m cao \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n \nc\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c\n m\u1eb7t sau: th\u1eddi gian, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao, s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh an to\u00e0n, nh\u1eefng \nl\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Th\u1eddi gian!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \u0110\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ta c\u1ea7n b\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian. \u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c \nbi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 \ntr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cao v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c\n v\u1eefng tr\u1eafc sau khi ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch xa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c thu nh\u1eadp cao, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 \ng\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. S\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \nph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c vui ch\u01a1i tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u1ed1\n g\u1eafng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \nng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng \nvi\u1ec7c. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian gi\u1ed1ng nhau, ai t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \nth\u1eddi gian t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. Trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh \nth\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed3i xem phim h\u00e0ng
gi\u1edd, ch\u01a1i game online h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y\u2026 th\u00ec \nb\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 lao \u0111\u1ed9ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00eam. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m \nth\u1ea5y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh \nth\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t k\u0129 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n n\u00f3 li\u00ean\n t\u1ee5c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Th\u1eddi gian b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \nn\u1eafm v\u1eefng n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho \nr\u1eb1ng con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 10000 gi\u1edd. Khi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi m\u1ed1c \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3\n th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u1eady c\u1ea7n bao \nl\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m m\u1ee9c 10000 gi\u1edd? M\u1ed9t con s\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1eddi \nbi\u1ebfng. Tuy nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 nh\u1ecf, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \nch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp li\u00ean t\u1ee5c 4 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n 6,8 n\u0103m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \nt\u1eadp 5 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n 5,5 n\u0103m. S\u1ebd l\u00e0 4,5 n\u0103m n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh ra 6 gi\u1edd\n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi \ngian b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp n\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng g\u00f5 \nc\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn cho nh\u1eefng ai bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0\n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i cho nh\u1eefng ai ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea3i rong ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 ph\u00ed ph\u1ea1m th\u1eddi gian \nqu\u00fd b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \n\u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. C\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \u0110\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7. \nCh\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3\n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \nv\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. D\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian\n \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u1ea1, lo chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1edbi \nm\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. \n\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3m\n b\u1edbt c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean k\u1ebft th\u00e2n
\n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nhau\n c\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 v\u00e0n m\u1ed1i quan \nh\u1ec7 m\u1edbi. V\u1eady n\u00ean trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i\n quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ee3p l\u00ed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n an to\u00e0n, \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u1eefng \nng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \nc\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o. V\u00ec l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean \n\u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t \nnhi\u1ec1u th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, m\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u sai s\u00f3t, g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c\u2026 Nh\u01b0ng \nn\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh trong \ncu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \nc\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n? Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\n nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng,\n m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi so v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. H\u00e3y d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 \nt\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c suy ngh\u0129 ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 kinh \ndoanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u1ee1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec sao?\u201d, \u201cl\u00e0m sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed s\u1ee9c \u1edf m\u1ed9t \nng\u00e0nh t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn?\u201d, \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a, l\u00e0m\n sao t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?\u201d\u2026 Nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn \nth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. D\u00e1m ngh\u0129, d\u00e1m l\u00e0m, d\u00e1m ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng!!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o, h\u1ecd \nch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o ra. B\u1ea1n th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \nng\u1ee3i, b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn \nv\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb ch\u00ea \nbai hay ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \nng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 khi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u1ee7a \nnh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 \ng\u1eafng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y
\n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ecb ch\u00ea bai v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ea5u\n ch\u1ed1t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf \ngi\u1edbi c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u1ea7u th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 70 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \nm\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean g\u1ea7y \u1ed1m, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \ngi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Harvard: anh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tri\u1ec7u ph\u00fa n\u0103m 30 tu\u1ed5i. N\u0103m 31 tu\u1ed5i, \nng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh vi\u00ean \u1ea5y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 xa l\u1ea1, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 Bill\n Gates \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc l\u1eebng danh. C\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Tuy \nnhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \nth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m, c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m\n tin v\u00e0o n\u00f3, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ch\u00ea kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \nc\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc ghi nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n,\n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen b\u00f3ng b\u1ea9y ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed7i khi \nnh\u1eafc t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng t\u1eafp\n v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ph\u1eb3ng. M\u1ea5y ai m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn vinh quang! Trong \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, \nd\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t \n\u0111i\u1ec1u, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111a s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n T\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n? Sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i,\n n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u00edt\n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp theo s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. \nNh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, h\u1ecd \nh\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u. Walt Disney th\u1eddi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb sa th\u1ea3i v\u1edbi l\u00ed\n do thi\u1ebfu \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng \u00f4m m\u1ed9ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ty s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t \nphim ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng sau nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \nth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebf ch\u1ebf kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n \nv\u1eadt huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1ecbt Donald v\u00e0 chu\u1ed9t Mickey. Hay nh\u01b0 Thomas Edison \u2013 \nnh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a 10,000 l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00ednh \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng \n\u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra 10,000 c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d \nkhi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \nkh\u1ecfi, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc \n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Khi g\u1ea1t \u0111i \nt\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean,\n r\u1ed3i khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ed3i th\u00ec \u1eaft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \nnhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00ec t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng \nm\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n. Khi kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ed3n\n h\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \n\u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee7 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, g\u1ea1t \u0111i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, ch\u1ecdn s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p \nth\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn nhanh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1o \nhi\u1ec3m, t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1eaft \nbu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Khi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i \nt\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, \nth\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 suy s\u1ee5p khi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t hay g\u1eb7p tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, tan \nv\u1ee1. D\u1eabu v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng \nch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u00ec \nc\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. V\u1eady c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \nm\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1i \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh \nc\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \nh\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m ch\u00fat m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \nph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m,\n h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh \nc\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\n c\u1ea3. C\u00e1i gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u1ebf \nn\u00e0o, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n.\n D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 \nl\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng r\u1ea5t cao,\n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o ch\u1ecbu tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \nth\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \nm\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i \u0111i v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng \nh\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ai c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6153,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kynangsong"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5594","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5594"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5594\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5594"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5594"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5594"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}