1. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. B\u1ea1n cho \u0111i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn khi m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng-\u0111\u1ed3ng-thu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
4. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i “C\u00d3” khi m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i “KH\u00d4NG”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
5. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i khi d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
6. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
7. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh khi m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
8. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i (t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia lu\u00f4n nh\u1eadn).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
9. B\u1ea1n hi sinh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
10. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n d\u1ea1ng h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng (passive aggressive) v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n b\u1edfi xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y (nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea7n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
11. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
12. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201ct\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng\u201d b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ecf ra t\u1eed t\u1ebf, t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
13. B\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb qu\u00e1 chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (k\u1ec3 l\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
14. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac (cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
15. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C MU\u1ed0N ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 NG\u01af\u1edcI M\u00c0 B\u1ea0N MU\u1ed0N TR\u1ede TH\u00c0NH.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
16. B\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
17. B\u1ea1n thu h\u00fat nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
18. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i kinh ni\u00ean v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c NGH\u0128 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n.
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Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u201cranh gi\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh hay y\u1ebfu \u1edbt th\u00ec mong b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. B\u1edfi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u1ee9ng c\u00e1p h\u01a1n. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat bao dung thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u201cranh gi\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n y\u1ebfu \u1edbt\u201d (b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o n\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c), tuy nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 s\u1edf h\u1eefu s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u00edch s\u00e1ch “T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
1. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c. 2. B\u1ea1n cho \u0111i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng). 3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn khi m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng-\u0111\u1ed3ng-thu\u1eadn. 4. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i “C\u00d3” khi m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i “KH\u00d4NG”. 5. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9230,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[348,652],"class_list":["post-9329","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kynangsong","tag-ky-nang-song-2","tag-trich-dan-hay"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9329","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9329"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9329\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9329"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9329"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9329"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}