M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 duy nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 con m\u1eaft tinh t\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u chi ti\u1ebft lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu h\u00e0nh vi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc h\u1eefu \u00edch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u khi \u0111ang n\u00f3i.
D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u “g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u” c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 “m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang”. Ngo\u00e0i ra, theo c\u00e1c m\u1eabu h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng t\u00e0u \u0111i\u1ec7n ng\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng?
\u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, theo h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i t\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi xem \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng nh\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho b\u1ea1n theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en. B\u00ed quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111i v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee5ng nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 l\u1edfn v\u1edfn trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n qu\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111i.
C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0i h\u00e1t. Theo hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng Zeigarnik, n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf d\u1edf. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ee7a con s\u00e2u tai kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40Mu\u1ed1n con b\u1ea1n \u0103n b\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i xanh?
H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang r\u1eb1ng li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n hai ho\u1eb7c n\u0103m c\u1ecdng b\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i xanh thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n b\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i xanh hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn b\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i xanh cho b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt c\u0169 trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang theo d\u00f5i b\u1ea1n.
H\u00e3y ng\u00e1p v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn xung quanh. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 theo d\u00f5i b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ng\u00e1p theo v\u00ec ng\u00e1p r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 l\u00e2y lan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n mang theo, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed, m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i trong khi giao chi\u1ebfc h\u1ed9p.
Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang giao cho h\u1ecd th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y n\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00edt g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1eafp b\u1eaft tay ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o tay b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 \u1ea5m.
B\u00e0n tay \u1ea5m \u00e1p th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n trong khi c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i.
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n.
B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb “T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n\u2026” M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n.
H\u1ecfi xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01b0\u1ee3n b\u00fat ch\u00ec ho\u1eb7c b\u00fat m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u01b0u \u00e1i nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi “gh\u00e9t” c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i “Kh\u00f4ng”. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00edch b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng.
Ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i khi anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a, h\u00e3y g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00edch b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac?
M\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng cha\/m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng tin v\u00e0o l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udf40 Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch \u2018\u2019 B\u00faa, k\u00e9o, bao” t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng!
\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i “B\u00faa,k\u00e9o, bao”, ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u01a1i, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ra “k\u00e9o”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u01b0u t\u1ea7m<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 duy nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 con m\u1eaft tinh t\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u chi ti\u1ebft lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu h\u00e0nh vi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8953,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[348,652],"class_list":["post-9340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kynangsong","tag-ky-nang-song-2","tag-trich-dan-hay"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9340"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9340\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vibeshelf.me\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}